Well well, I know every lady out there looks for this solution. Men are certainly complicated and unpredictable, but on the other hand they are the simplest creatures to handle. Here are some of the tips to get a man's attention whether you are already into a relationship or you are crushing on him.
3ways How To Get A Man's Attention.
1. Enhance your standards /Try new things.
Everyone loves something decent, something fresh
and exciting, which we all know that. So if you are already in a relationship,
this is roughly late for you, but not too late to further progress the game.
You can as well upgrade your standards at anytime in anyway. How is that? All
you have to do is read and follow;
A). Already in a Relationship
So in case you are already with your man and
a lot has been changing lately, maybe he's too fixed with work, studies,
friends or even not fixed at all but no longer gives you that attention you
used to gain before, first thing you should keep away from your mind is that “he
is cheating on you’’. Am sure that’s what every female thinks first but babe
you are wrong as sometimes he is just so used to your standards and he might
really be wanting something new to trigger his emotions. Here I don’t mean he
wants you to start stripping naked in front of him, absolutely not that, I mean
time comes when men are bored of sex. However I don’t mean that they don’t want
it anymore but they get used to having the same meal, the same way every now
and then, thus need something more intimate than just sex. So as a woman
efforting to regain your husband/man’s attention, try doing things more neatly
like improving your hygiene, try new styles of outfits, new bed styles or positions
and so on, just ensure to try something new. If he's used to you having blabby
friends, then try to get gregarious ones and let your relationship look new every day.
Also Read: 15 Remarkable Way How A woman can Keep Her man.
B). Your Crush
Now what if this man is your crush, please
set your standards before it’s too late. I know most times when you like
someone, you really want to let them know but it does depend how you do this,
you are either going to confess your feelings for him which is probably more weird
for a woman to do or else you are going woo this man to fall for you without lots
of effort. How can that be, just follow
below;
Foremost thing
you should know about men is, they are actually weak emotion wise and vulnerable
to women, so here's how it works. If you ever confess your feelings to a man
first, at the end of the story he will ashame you amongst his friends and he
will always treat you like you need him more. Am sure everybody wants a two
sided relationship, but then doing that (confessing feelings) will lower your
standards. So how about you do this, let's say this man you are crushing on lives
in your neighborhood or goes to the same school with you or the same workplace or
drinks at the same bar as you or any other place you visit in common. I think
this is way too easy.
Firstly, Shoot
your shot indirectly, make sure wherever you sit, walk or stand he can clearly
see you. However, by this I don’t mean start biting your lips whenever he looks
at you, no sweetie that’s not it. Act normal though sexy, wear neatly, walk sexily
and mind your actions in his view. This man will gain interest and become
curious as to why he always sees you and if you looked pretty and sexy enough,
he will definitely want to know you more so he is going to approach you first.
Although this will take time but it’s very fruitful.
2. Master the art of charm and pretense (Pretend to be busy).
A). Yeah! No man can resist this and if he
does, well then he definitely doesn't like you. So if you are already a couple,
try wearing skimpy attires and do your own business anywhere he can see you.
This is no guess work, any man who's attracted to you will never at any time
resist you, however busy he may be.
B). Then if you are just crushing on this man,
well don’t give him leg right away but make him inquisitive about it all the
time. Make him want to explore you but make it hard, though not too hard for
him to reach. He will really want to know why you are that hard and he will
definitely gain even much more interest. However in case the man isn’t surely
yours yet, avoid skimpy clothes. Thou I don’t mean wear hijabs alone and long
ugly big skirts, but try not to look too skimpy or nudie, men determine what to
do with you from how they met you. When you look skimpy or nudie, he is
definitely going to want you for just a little sex and nothing serious like a
relationship.
3. Possess a unique taste and style.
This simply means nice taste in outfits, nice
scent, nice looks, nice verbal content and nice humor. As I said your
appearance says more about you especially your character. Look responsible and
he will not approach you if he is never ready for something serious.
Look skimpy or nudie and all lusty men will
run to you for bed satisfaction. Look classy or descent and you will attract
rich men because poor men won't seem to afford you.
In conclusion, a man's attention is unpredictable as it all depends on the kind of man your dealing with and the effort you putting in.
Also Check: 5 Approved Tips on How To Make A Happy And Successful Relationship.